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fetscherDear Family,
Well, Andy Cooney didn’t disappoint. We hope to have him back next year and I would love to see some more folks help organize the program.

Deep thanks to Bill Loughlin for supplying the decorations, to the crew who put them around, Judy Fisher, Linda Hatlan, Joan Pruzinsky, Marilyn Sims and Sandy Keyser (who turns out to be a great dancer), Frank Krauser and Bob Romano for supplying the potables with the underwriting of the Men’s Club, The SSCCW for all the paper goods, Al Ferzacca for manning the bar, Nancy Adams, Amy Carroll and Judy once again for making the Irish coffees, Jackie Schoettle, Sue Blanchette for serving, Tom Gleason, Dottie Nolen (who was there at the beginning and as well,) and their friends for picking up after the meal. I’m sure there were others I didn’t see and I assure you that you’ll get double indulgences!

fetscherDear Family,
Is anyone else wondering where January went? I’m sure we had a good time last night at the Andy Cooney Show. I’m writing my reaction before the show so it’s an act of faith. Nevertheless, I doubt I’ll be disappointed recalling past history.

Waxy O’Connor’s on 17th Street brings us the true Irish food. Our thanks to Mark and Noreen Roehleder who own the pub. Monsignor Pat and Annie attended their wedding in Northern Ireland many moons ago. Now they grace our lives here. They both have a lilt to their voices so you might be tempted to ask where “Roehleder” came from. You can ask them the history when you drop in on Waxy’s. This is an unabashed plug if you haven’t been there yet.

fetscherDear Family,
We are on our way with ABCD. In our first week you have pledged $48,246. This year, as you heard last Sunday, our goal for 2017 is $101,948. The amount is based on our past contributions. I am hopeful that we will be as generous as we have been in the past. We will be missing one anonymous gift this year because the giver is now with the Lord, hopefully enjoying the life of heaven in peace. That gift determined our success in reaching our goal. So maybe all of us must stretch a little more to cover that. I’m just hopeful that the needs will dictate our contributions.

fetscherDear Family,
I said last week that I wanted to perhaps expand a little on the thoughts about our parish finances. I’ll be darned if I can remember what I wanted to say. Would $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ cover it?  I suspect Mary Wood (thanking her for the great job she always does – with pictures this year no less thanks to Ron Picur) would like a little more from me, so let me ruminate.

I hate talking about money. Doesn’t that sound “detached” and maybe “spiritual?” The truth is that I’m copping out on a responsibility that belongs to all of us. Hating it doesn’t relieve me (or you) from the responsibility of puffing my money where my mouth is; namely, what does it take to spread the gospel?

fetscherDear Family,
As I write, it’s the day after Epiphany. A great group of people - or better, a group of great people – are over in the Main Sanctuary carefully packing away all the Christmas decorations. They are determined that next year we will not have to worry about “fluffing” the wreaths. If you don’t know what I’m talking about, don’t worry. It’s only important to people who value symmetry in their wreaths.

fetscherDear Family,
The parish family of St. John the Baptist recently celebrated the Rites of Christian Burial for Arlene Erdman, the wife of Dr. Leonard Erdman, good people known to many. At the funeral, at her request the following reflection was read by Msgr. Vincent Kelly, also its author. It pleases me now to pass it on to you, particularly at the beginning of our new year.

fetscherDear Family,
Last week I asked, “So why did he come?” As I thought about it my memories took me down the path of seeing Jesus as our greatest gift. He came to us to give the ultimate gift, eternal life. Now that a week has passed since present-opening, I’m asking myself another question. Today, is my best memory of Christmas 16 the realization that Jesus was my best gift?

Two weeks ago, someone asked me to bless a set of keys that were for a car he was giving to his wife. I don’t remember who the gentleman was, but I hope his wife really enjoyed and will continue to enjoy her special gift. I’m hoping and praying that they both not only enjoyed being giver and givee, but also knew that the gift of the car was nothing compared to the gift of Jesus, who was the reason for the gift in the first place. “Jesus, is the reason for the season,” as the old catchphrase goes.

fetscherDear Family,
Welcome to all our visitors. If someone in your family ‘guilt-tripped’ you into coming, thank them. For one thing, we may need you more than you need us, at least at first blush. After all, this is the season of decorating and you bring a unique dimension to the family. For another thing, Jesus is constantly seeking ways to love us, and here, hopefully, we are letting each other see Him in Word, Sacrament and all of us, His Body, the members of the Body of Christ. That’s why He came.

The more amazing thing is that after He came the first time, he chose to use us to continue coming. Imagine. Us. That’s why he came.

There are a lot of histories of gift-giving that vary in time and cultures across the ages. I’d like to think that we give gifts today because they reflect our attitudes about the people to whom we give them. But first of all, how about considering that we give them in gratitude because we realize WE have been “gifted” by Jesus. That’s why He came.

fetscherDear Family,
The feast is a week away and this has been an interesting time for me. For one thing, thanks to Father Tom Boyer, we’ve been pondering the idea that, “Advent is not a season; it is a way of life.” The adventure of living a life of expectation brings a joyful perspective of freshness to living ...even when you have passed the mid-way mark of your life. (Okay. Don’t get technical... maybe I’m a little more than half-way.) I’m not sure how the attitude I have here from day-to-day shapes my eter¬nal future but I have a strong feeling that is not just deeds that shape our future, but attitudes as well.

You’ve also heard me asking how does the gospel help us deal with the socio-political-cultural chasm we seem to find ourselves in. Some observe those divisions have been there a long time and only in the present unique circumstances do they tend to emerge. You’ve got to wonder where these demons are coming from. However... whatever... I’d like to feel a little better about things. I had the happy discovery of reruns of the Dick Van Dyke show that have been ‘colorized.’ Thank you, CBS. I think, though, we are going to have to do a little bit better than colorization.

fetscherDear Family,
Just “because we’ve always done it this way” is one of those phrases that’s been used to end conversations and drive people nuts. I “always” write a Twitch.

I just came from St. Thomas Aquinas high school where the students were taking advantage of having priests come for the sacrament of Reconciliation. The kids I met were really impressive.

I knew I had to get home asap because I had not written this letter and the deadline comes at noon, (ten minutes from now.) My mind has been a blank for two days.

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